My heart flutters when he texts me unprompted, and I can't help but smile to some of the things I read. But the other half of the time, he won't text back, will stop texting suddenly, or will act like he doesn't care. He always jokes that I should visit him, but to me it is just a joke, not an actual invitation. I cant tell what he is actually thinking. Seriously guys, just say what you mean for once.
I can understand the fear of being rejected; I have also felt that sting which I am sure is why I haven't asked a guy to a dance since. But most girls (stay away from the bitchy stuck-up ones) will do their best to let you down kindly if they don't like you the same way. But all the stupid boys out there, who wont say how they feel, are the reason for this rant. Suck it up, and show some emotion for once.
I've been in that situation. Other side though. My thoughts were, I really like this girl but it's not going to work out. If I keep the ball in play without making it serious I can back out without breaking her heart and, if something were to come of it, without sending out signals to back away.
ReplyDeleteI often told her to come visit me merely because I wanted her to know that I was still into her. Plus it was nice to see her. However by putting a label on it, the relationship word, it makes it so I can't follow out other relationships.
We humans are horrible creatures and one of the main reasons I never "dated" her was because I didn't want to cheat on her and I knew that if a girl I went to school with came into my life I would go after the local and break up with her.
Boys are dumb but so are girls.